The first time with an escort
No pressure. No judgment. Everything's going according to plan.
The first time should be a beautiful experience, not one filled with anxiety. I, Irina le Fey, have had the privilege of accompanying various men through exactly this experience. What I’ve learned is that a thoughtfully planned first time with an escort can be the most relaxed and beautiful version of it.
Why it might be the right decision to plan your first time with an escort
For everyone, the first time is an exciting and sometimes frightening experience. Especially for those who didn't take that step in their younger years, the psychological pressure can build over time until it begins to affect everyday life - causing inhibition on dates, making the experience feel increasingly daunting, and leading to a pattern of postponement that doesn't resolve itself. So why not loose your virginity with an escort lady? You can book a Escort model as a virgin.
Losing one's virginity to an escort
The first time is rarely the romantic union with a first great love in which one's sexuality finally blossoms - at least not for most people. There is no universal formula: no right moment, no ideal partner, no perfect situation. Everyone has to decide that for themselves. And it's important not to place such enormous weight on the first time that it becomes a burden. The era of waiting for the wedding night is over. Sexuality is lived more openly today and carries less shame than before.
But it is not entirely free of shame either. People still feel the need not to deviate too far from what they perceive as normal. The more people in one's own circle become sexually active, the greater the pressure to belong to that group. For many men, not having had a sexual experience becomes more unsettling with every passing year. And because it tends to be kept secret out of shame, the internal pressure only grows.
Why have your first time with an escort?
I am not suggesting that everyone should plan their first sexual experience in a professional context. But I do want to lay out the advantages of that option - openly and without judgement.
I can also imagine a first time with a sex worker being a very beautiful and sensitive experience for women. Looking back, I personally would have preferred my own first time to be with someone I could speak to openly, plan everything with, and where my needs were at the centre of everything. Most women wouldn't consider this option, however. Men seem to be more pragmatic about it - or their suffering from the pressure of inexperience is simply greater.
What a first time with an escort companion actually means
I have had the privilege of accompanying different men in very different life situations through their first sexual experience. Each time was something special - and I deeply value the trust they placed in me. Because even though I was initially a stranger to these men: I am practised at creating an atmosphere of closeness and safety quickly.
In that atmosphere, it becomes possible to speak openly about one's situation, about uncertainties, fears and inhibitions. I don't need to be impressed or won over. I would never respond with rejection or judgement. What is discussed before the date stays between us. We plan the setting together, the conditions, and what the man would like his first time to look like.
That provides something almost never present in a spontaneous first time: certainty. Knowing that it is going to happen allows complete focus on the experience itself - rather than on how to make it happen.
How losing one's virginity to an escort actually works
The process looks different for every man. Some need a little more time to feel genuinely comfortable and relaxed. Others settle in immediately and give the impression of being already confident and experienced. Both are completely fine. There is no right or wrong.
What always remains is the same: the moment when the pressure lifts. When the man realises that he doesn't need to worry, that no one is judging, and that this evening exists only for him.
What really matters for your first sex
The most important thing, in my view, is that one faces one's own insecurities, releases the shame around one's own sexuality, and stops associating sex with anxiety and pressure - allowing it to become instead the most wonderful of life's pleasures. Because that is exactly what it is.
If you recognise yourself in this article and have been thinking about planning this step deliberately - get in touch with Plescort. We'll talk through what you have in mind and find the right setting together.